Bollywood glamour queen Aishwarya Rai -
celebrating her first wedding anniversary with hubby Abhishek
Bachchan in Miami Sunday - describes her marriage as a “unique and
beautiful experience”.
“When I went back on the sets after marriage, there was no change at
all. There has been a normal flow before and after marriage. Everyone
wants to know how marriage has changed my life. Nothing has
changed at all. Life has been one smooth flow,” Aishwarya told IANS
in a telephone interview from Miami.
“And though I didn’t plan such a marriage, I wouldn’t want it any other
way. It has been wonderful on both the personal and professional
fronts,” she added.
The actress, who starred in epic romance “Jodhaa Akbar” and
completed Hollywood film “Pink Panther” in the past year, says she
did not become choosy after marriage.
“I’ve been working selectively since ‘Devdas’. I’m glad I’ve been
choosing discreetly according to how much time I’ve on hand. That
doesn’t change now.
“I’ve committed myself to a couple of films now. I really don’t know
if I’m going to get more selective, because I never do more than three
films a year. Let’s see
A: (Laughs) Now that you remind me of it, of course. And if you add
“Guru” to it, Abhishek and I came together through these.
Q: Where do you go now? Will you be working selectively?
A: When have I not been working selectively? I’ve been working
selectively since “Devdas”. I’m glad I’ve been choosing discreetly
according to how much time I’ve on hand. That doesn’t change now.
I’ve committed myself to a couple of films now. I really don’t know if
I’m going to get more selective, because I never do more than three
films a year. Let’s see what the future holds. So many films I’ve let go
because of the time factor.
Q: Abhishek told me you were willing to let go of “Pink Panther”
because his grandmother (Teji Bachchan who died in December 2007)
was critically ill.
A: (Falls silent) Firstly, she was not just his grandmother, but mine
too. So I wanted to spend as much time with her as he did. Of course,
actors are greedy people. They like to do all sorts of roles that come
their way. However, I’ve never been one to detach myself from reality.
I’d not want my family life to take a backseat to my work. I genuinely
love my husband, his parents who are now my parents, and my own
parents. I want to be with my new family, get to know them better
because I got to know them so late in life.
However, I also know my professional responsibilities. When I came
from my honeymoon, I went straight to the location for “Jodhaa
Akbar”. I’m lucky to be married into a family, which is the epitome of
professionalism. Of course, we want to spend time together, but we
can’t let work suffer. When “Pink Panther” was offered, grandma
became really unwell. During “Jodhaa Akbar” I’d rush back to hospital
as frequently as I could. I was reluctant. More so because this was an
international project.
Q: What do you mean?
A: Well, in India the entertainment industry doesn’t only go by the
commerce. We do operate from the heart. There’s room for domestic
crisis in our film industry. Overseas, one is under serious contracts.
Even though Abhishek encouraged me to take up “Pink Panther”, I
made sure I left room in my contract for visits back home because I did
want to experience Karwa Chauth and Diwali. Then I checked with my
international manager to make sure that I could come back if, god
forbid, grandma was in an emergency.